Saturday, May 7, 2016

Teach Your Kids What It Means To Be Rich

Today’s fantastic family finance article is:

Spending Compass Aligned With Values


What does it mean to be “rich”?

“Duh, Dad. To have tons of money.”

Not so fast.

Henry David Thoreau said:

“I make myself rich by making my wants few.”

And Charles Caleb Colton said:

“He that has little and wants less is richer than he that has much and wants more.”

And Doris Day said:

“Gratitude is riches. Complaint is poverty.”

Ponder these quotes with the kids.

Once basic needs are met, it seems that being rich has surprisingly little to do with the total amount of money you earn and more to do with how you spend whatever money you have.

Teach your kids to spend their money on the things that truly matter, the things they truly value, and they’ll be very rich indeed.


Friday, May 6, 2016

Help Your Kid Get More Grit

Today’s fantastic family finance article is:

Grit Equation


“I want my kid to have grit.”

Agree? Probably.

Success and grit seem to go hand in hand. And success often means financial security, among other good things.

But what is grit?

“Passion and perseverance for especially long-term goals,” says professor of psychology, Angela Duckworth who has written a book on grit.

If your kid lacks grit, can it be developed? Yes.

In researching the grit of people with deep success in a field or endeavor, Angela found it’s forged from four key elements:

  1. Interest — Sustained interest, often referred to as passion. But humans naturally get bored. They crave novelty. Gritty people “learn to substitute nuance for novelty” in their chosen area. They maintain interest by appreciating the endless subtleties.
  2. Practice — Not just rote practice. Deliberate practice. Tons of it. Like 10,000 hours as Malcolm Gladwell famously wrote in the book Outliers.
  3. Purpose — Connecting your endeavor to people or things or ideas that are beyond yourself.
  4. Hope — The unwavering belief that you can overcome the inevitable obstacles and setbacks.

Beware skipping element number one.

Forcing 10,000 hours of deliberate practice in the absence of interest is a recipe for disaster.

That said, it will take consistent prodding to get your kid to try out different interests and to appreciate nuance as novelty.

That’s called parenting grit.


Thursday, May 5, 2016

Give Your Kids This Basic Investing Chalk Talk

Today’s fantastic family finance article is:

Investing Big Picture


Investing, blah, blah, blah, cash, blah, blah, blah, stocks, blah, blah, blah, bonds, blah, blah, blah, diversification, blah, blah, blah, time horizon, blah, blah, blah, risk tolerance, blah, blah, blah, return, blah, blah, blah, asset allocation, blah, blah, blah, rebalancing. Got it?”
“Dad, you lost me at ‘investing.’”

Let’s try something different. A simple picture.

First, let’s draw a horizontal line representing when we anticipate needing some money. It starts with “right now” and works its way up to “decades from now” and beyond.

Now, let’s draw a vertical line showing how much risk we’re willing to take with our money. It starts with “no risk” and works it’s way up.

If we need the money right away, we don’t want to be taking any chances with it. That’s a dot in the lower left corner.

If we don’t need the money for decades, we’re more willing to take some chances. Why? It turns out that if we take more risk, we have a better chance of getting more reward. That’s a dot in the upper right corner.

Now, connect the dots. That shows us how "when we need the money" (our "time horizon") affects how much risk we’re willing to take.

Now let’s consider some of the most popular places to keep money.

  • As cash in a bank account. Not risky at all. In fact, if something happens to the bank, the government will step in and make sure you get your money back. (Up to $250,000 — as long as your account is FDIC insured. Make sure it is.) Write “cash” in the lower left corner of the chart.
  • Invested in stocks. Can be extremely risky — especially if you hold individual stocks or hold for short periods of time. (Hint: be sure to check out low cost index funds or ETFs as a way to hold broadly diversified collections of stocks with lower risk and strong returns over the long haul.) Write “stocks” in the upper right corner of the chart.
  • Invested in Bonds. Typically somewhere in between cash and stock when it comes to risk/reward. Write “bonds” in the middle of the chart.

So, where should you keep your money?

When do you need it?

Everyone needs some now for everyday spending, regular bills, and short term savings goals. Think cash. And remember, an emergency could happen any time, which means it could be today. That's why emergency funds should be in cash.

Everyone needs some for the future. The younger you are, the more decades in that future. So, the more you should be thinking stocks. As you get older, fewer decades, less stock which means more bonds and cash.

That’s the big picture when it comes to investing. Pretty simple.

Make sure your kid understands the big investing picture. You can wow her with the fancy jargon later.


Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Teach Teens That Even An Extreme Minimalist Needs An Emergency Fund

Today’s fantastic family finance article is:

Minimalist Emergency Fund


Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world...

~ John Lennon

Can your teen imagine living without money or possessions? Can you?

Heidemarie can. And has for 17 years. Well, OK, she has a few possessions. They all fit into a single rolling suitcase.

She barters her services for room, board, haircuts, transportation.

Miserable? No. Healthy and happy. A lifestyle built on “love and trust.”

Read today’s provocative article with your kids.

Imagine. Discuss. What would be the positives? What would be the negatives?

Sure, it’s wildly extreme to give up all your possessions, but do we really need to accumulate so many?

Final thought: even as an extreme minimalist, Heidemarie maintains an emergency fund. Smart. There are lots of “maximalists” out there with no emergency fund. Which is crazier?


Tuesday, May 3, 2016

The Key To Grooming A Kidpreneur: Creating Versus Just Consuming

Today’s fantastic family finance article is:

Zombie Gamer Kid


If you’re like most normal parents, you probably aren’t seriously fixated on trying to groom the next Zuckerberg, Jobs, or Wojcicki (Anne or Susan!).

That said, you probably do like the idea of your kid developing an entrepreneur’s knack for problem solving and creativity. And, one way or another, technology is invariably involved.

The good news: your smartphone-toting, screen-staring youngster is fully engaged with technology already. The bad news: that engagement is typically on the consuming end.

While moderation is certainly a good thing, the answer isn’t necessarily cutting the screen-time cord. Instead, try shifting more of those hours from consumption to creation.

Kid loves Minecraft? Explore making mods.

Kid loves Counter-Strike? Explore designing custom maps.

Kid loves YouTube? iTunes? Explore editing and production tools.

Whining for more screen-time? Create something, and your kid might just have a deal.


Monday, May 2, 2016

Share Warren's Wisdom With Your Kids: A Full Wallet Is Like A Full Bladder..

Today’s fantastic family finance article is:

A Bursting Wallet


The smartest investor of all time has a way of putting things in terms that even your youngest kids can understand.

At 85, he is after all just a big kid himself.

While sipping cherry coke and eating peanut brittle at the live streamed Berkshire Hathaway annual meeting last Saturday, Warren uttered this sage piece of personal finance wisdom:

“A full wallet is like a full bladder; you may have the urge to pee it away.”

Translation: when money hangs out in a convenient spending place (like your wallet), it tends to get spent. On whatever. Put your excess cash somewhere else. A savings jar. A savings account. An investment account.

If you’re finding Warren’s quote a bit too crass and juvenile to share with your kids, consider this alternative classic from the Oracle of Omaha:

“Do not save what is left after spending, but spend what is left after saving.”

Same wise message without the bodily fluids reference. Tuck some of that incoming cash away into savings. Right away.

That’s how you avoid the urge.


Sunday, May 1, 2016

How Teens Can Take Big Time CEOs To Task

Today’s fantastic family finance article is:

Activist Kid Shareholder


“Why the layoffs?”

“What are you doing to boost efficiency?”

“How much are you paying women compared to men?”

“What are you doing to raise the share price?”

“Why did CEO pay increase $3M when the share price decreased 6%?”

Some pretty tough questions for a CEO.

Who’s asking? A hard nosed financial reporter?

Industry analyst?

CNBC anchor?

Nope. A 9th grade shareholder. Natalie received shares in Bank of America as a gift when she was a baby. Now she’s holding the CEO’s feet to the fire.

How does Natalie get an audience with the CEO of a $150B public company?

Unlike most shareholders, she shows up at the annual shareholder meeting. She steps up to the microphone.

Remind kids that CEOs don't own the company, the shareholders do.

Even teen shareholders can stand up and ask CEOs the tough questions. In fact, as today’s article shows, they’re probably more likely to be heard.